Tom Brady has never been shy about demanding excellence, and the retired NFL legend recently turned his focus to what he sees as a growing problem in sports culture.
Speaking candidly about accountability, Brady criticized younger generations of athletes for struggling to accept feedback and responsibility when performance falls short.
Brady made the comments while appearing on the Spittin’ Chiclets podcast, which was recorded at the NHL Winter Classic earlier this month in Miami. Hosted by former NHL players Paul Bissonnette, Ryan Whitney and Keith Yandle, the discussion touched on themes that cut across all professional sports.
Whitney raised the topic of teams favoring so called players’ coaches, only to later seek out more demanding leadership when discipline slips.
Brady quickly shared his frustration with that trend.
“But why do we need these coaches that are like… ‘I always point out first like all the mistakes I made,’ and I’m like, ‘Jesus Christ,'” Brady said.
When the conversation turned to why that approach has become common, Yandle summed it up with one word.
“Soft?”
“Well, they’re just unwilling to take criticism for lack of performance,” Brady responded.
“Like, why do we allow this with parents? Why do we allow it in schools? Why do we allow it with coaching, where it’s okay to mess up and screw up in front of your teammates because you’re not prepared or you didn’t put the effort in? Why can’t we call people out on that?”
Brady on performance, pressure and responsibility
Brady argued that pushing athletes is not something coaches should feel guilty about.
“Why do you have to apologize for trying to get the best out of somebody?” he said.
“That’s what needs to change, and I think that’s swung to a certain point, and now it’s swinging back where… if you want to be a high performer, there are no days (when) you can underperform, or you’re just average. Because if one day is great and the next day sucks, you’re average.”
The former quarterback also pointed to social media as a growing obstacle to team unity.
According to Brady, public blame and outside voices can quickly fracture locker rooms.
“I mean, how bad is it, teams where, you know, you’re always pointing the finger at somebody else,” he said.
“You lose a game, you pick up your phone, you open your social media. Who do we blame for this?”
Brady believes that mindset shifts focus away from improvement and toward excuses.
“These people aren’t involved in your team, right?” he added. “They don’t know.”
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